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writes:hi im 16 and i have had 7 failed relationships. all of them i have tried my best to make work but all have failed. im captain of my rugby team, im a county champion 4 triple jump. im also a volunteer youth worker. im not exactly ugly, im sensitive and im in a good group of friends. what do i need to do to make a relationship work? should i just give up? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 October 2008):
You're 16!! Did you expect to be married by now?
Your relationships have failed because you have been dating little girls, and no offence but that is because you are a boy.
Most kids your age don't have the skills to maturely work out problems. It doesn't matter, it's all part of the process of learning these skills.
Unless they are all leaving you because you keep beating them up / trying to have sex with their pet dog, then I think you have nothing to worry about.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Um...you're 16 years old. That says it all right there. You and your previous mates were still young, immature and just flat out inexperienced. Don't expect to find the love of your life at such a young age. Relax a little and stop taking relationships in high school so seriously. Honestly, I wish I would have waited until after High School to even consider dating. The majority of high school relationships never last. They're only good if you want experience, I guess. So it's not that you're doing anything wrong...it's that you don't know WHAT you're doing yet. Just give it time and learn from them.
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