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writes:Okay, I've recently become friends with a boy and now I'm developing a crush on him. He's 3 school years older than me, but I've pushed that beside me, he's not extremely attractive but he's got the most loveliest personality. I've told my friends and they all think that the age gap is too big and it would never happen, but I don't know. He's been acting really kind to me and he's really sweet, if I see him in the corridor he'll talk to me and just treat me like I'm in his own year. I don't know if that's how he acts to everyone, but it really makes me fall for him. How can I find out how he feels, without giving away how I feel? Please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): i am seriously in te same situation im 13 but the boy i really like is almost 16 so i no what your going threw it can be a little weird at first but i dont think he cares if he alks to you normal or even flirts with you a little
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): really think about it 3 years is nothing and if he acts nice and doesn't ignore you and mutter like others then that shows that even if he doesn't want a serious relationship with you he does want you guys to be friends so there's always a positive in this situation so don't give up.
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reader, Emmajane +, writes (16 January 2009):
 Hi honey, sounds quite good to me. Je's not pushing you and obviously seems to respect you. He probably also realises he could be criticised for trying to get together with someone younger. If I were you I'd simply ask him how he feels. Men are very simple when it comes to this stuff. They don't understand hints, or any kind of subtlety, so just ask him how he feels about you!
Also, bearing in mind what I just said, be fairly direct with him too. Men are not mind readers (any more than parents or teachers!) and they need to be told what you're thinking.
EmmaJane x
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