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writes:I found out that my gf has been cheating on me with someone she has never met in another country(saw the steamy e-mails) and confirmed. We live together and the apartment is mine. I want so bad to kick her out but she just had major surgery and is out of work with no benefits. I hate this situation so bad and something in me is burning up to just throw her out. She has no family or friends nearby. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Don't beat around the bush just because she has had major op. Tell her exactly how it is, that you are not happy about the emails and you want her to go. But, not until she is back on her feet or that would be too harsh. Let her sleep in the spare room. Tell her you cannot accept behaviour like this and she wouldn't like it if that was you. Let her know that she must go and it is over between the two of you. Unless, you two have a good talk, get it out in the open, she stops what she is doing and you decide to forgive her. That option would not be for me, sorry but she would be out on her bum just as soon as she had recovered.
Take care
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (12 March 2007):
First off, i would consider that she hasnt had actual intercourse with this guy. Hes in a diffrent country. These emails could mean nothing. If you still want to finish it then you should follow askeves advice. I know you said she had no friends or family nearby, but if you want her gone why not pack up her stuff and take her (however far it is) to some of her family. I dont see why you cant drive her there or get the bus.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Confront her and let her know you know. Then tell her that from now on she sleeps on the sofa/spare room and no arguments! As soon as she is well enough she has to look for another place as it's finished between you!
Eve
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