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*yraAnna
writes:Hello everyone,here`s a situation: I am 20 years old, have been in a relationship last two years and now we decide to split up. I met a new guy who is absolutely gorgeous, smart, funny etc. But I feel like I have kinda lost my ability to flirt. I used to know so much funny lines and sexy and lovely jokes, but now I am totally numb. And also, I am really shy person. This new guy impressed me so I would be really happy if things work out. I think he likes me, but he is also little bit shy. Should I take things in my hands and go straight to head and be more direct? Or will that scare him? It is not really my style, but...:DThis is so ridiculous, I know.:P
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2011): I agree to just be yourself. I don't think you've forgotten how to flirt. You're just older now and different than before. We all change and our experiences change how we behave as we mature.
I think just being yourself, being positive, and being open are all good things. Just show him interest. My husband is very shy and I'm more outgoing, but I can also be shy especially about flirting. Just by spending time together we were able to start a relationship, no need for fancy jokes or pick up lines.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 It is all new and exciting for you, I get that. Are you sure you are ready to date though? You say you feel numb, are you over your ex enough to move on to the next guy? If you are and you like him well then just be yourself with him, if you are struggling to flirt try not worry about it, just be yourself around him and then he knows what he is getting. Don't be to forward with him but just be yourself and if you like him well then tell him that.
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