My former fwb keeps looking for me. He found out where I work and used that as an excuse to message me. He wants to have sex of course. I've been single and abstinence from sex by choice and I'm content with that. I've had declined his advances, ignored him and blocked him from social media but he doesn't get it. He has a pregnant girlfriend as well. Not sure what to do now?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (14 May 2017):Threaten to tell his girlfriend what he is doing if he doesn't back off. That should make him think twice.
He is not getting the message because, being a woman, you are probably being far too polite, not wanting to hurt him.
Put yourself in the shoes of his poor pregnant girlfriend. At the time she is at her most vulnerable, that snake is trying to hook up with other women (you are probably not the only one) for sex.
You have tried the polite approach and the blocking approach. Now tell him in words a 5 year old can understand that, if he doesn't stop stalking you, you will tell his girlfriend what has been going on. I bet you never hear from him again.
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