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sxcgal12345
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him. Please help! Reply to this Question |
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reader, maybebabysweeny +, writes (22 February 2008):
You are too young to be worrying about a boy . Or even know what love is . By what your age is saying . Go to a parent or someone in school like a teacher or your schools counselor if you are indeed pregnant as you say . I am 16 and am expecting a baby . And I know I am not ready in many ways . I would not think about a little boy leaving you for another little girl . I would suggest you worry about your baby and tell someone who is close to you\someone who may help you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Hello - your age is coming up on the screen as '10-12'! Is this Correct? If so/if you are under age 16, you need to speak to your Mother and GP ASAP. Speak to your Mother now/today and get an urgent appointment with your GP first thing tomorrow morning. Take care xx
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reader, Crisy +, writes (19 February 2008):
hey sweeti, erm how old are you because I think if you're only 10 to 12 you've got a problem and you really need to tell your boyfriend x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Just exactly what is your age please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): If your age is correct then oh dear.
Firstly you shouldnt be having sex - how old is this boyfriend? Hopefully old enough to get in trouble for it!
Secondly, you need to start thinking about your options, expect your parents to be unhappy about this.
Thirdly, forget the boyfriend, he has moved on.
What a waste.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): This has got to be wind-up or soon it will be all over nation papers and on the news!!!
I say wind-up but if its true this is soo sad in this day and age what is comming to the world!
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reader, TELLULAH + ♥, writes (19 February 2008):
What the hell are you thinking getting pregnant at 10-12 years old. This has to be a mistake surely.
If you are pregnant and are not just saying this to try and get him back, then you need to tell your parents. If they love you enough they will help, although this boy is bound to get into trouble.
I really hope that your not, and you have made a mistake. But Honey you are still a child, and should not be having sex anyway.
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reader, daisyb212 +, writes (19 February 2008):
for goodness sake i just dont even know what to say here! if your old enough to have sex (or think you are) then why no protection? do u just not know about it? well no point dwelling on it now! do what that other person says, speak to your mother! forget about the boyfriend, he is nothing, irrelevent!!! you need to discuss with some adults your options etc, whatever decision you make you will always have to live with the consequences so be prepared! good luck
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (19 February 2008):
Are you seriously under 12 years of age?!?
Forget the boyfriend, as he is not the issue. Talk to your mother and tell her what's going on. Most girls your age haven't even had their first kiss, never mind sex!
My advice to your family would be to let you have your baby, if only to teach you the importance of life and the part sex plays within it. You need your family behind you, you need to concentrate on your studies too and grow up before you date another boy.
When you do find a boy to love, in the future, get to know him before you sleep together, make sure you both do it out of love and play safe! You need to learn responsability before you embark on a sex life, this means knowing when and how to say no and arranging contraception before you get started.
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (19 February 2008):
Oh Girl!Don't wait ... go and tell him right now!!!!!!!!!!! He has to know !! He maight still not wana be with you,but he is the father of your "child" and he has the right to know !!! Don't wait ... tell him right now!!!!!!!!! Maybe you should go to a Dr and have test made .. and show him that, so he knows you are not lying just to keep him around ... Good luck
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