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writes:Ok i'll try and keep it short: Last night I went for a meal with a friend, and having just finished this guy and his friend came over said hi and later I bumped into him in another pub. I felt a attraction to him straightaway, when my friend decided to leave I stayed with him and another friend. I ended up going with him and his mate to a club, he was all over me and i enjoyed the attention. He'd admitted that he'd used girls b4 but he really liked me and was ready to change. His friend said something to me that made me think maybe he was just using me but as soon as i said i was going he wanted to talk and we spent hours just chatting about everyday stuff. Today he text me to say ''want to go out'' I replied sayin i was tired and didn't want a mad one or to go clubbin, his reply was ''oh well'' so i replied back saying ''i'll come out 4 a quiet one'' that was the last text i got. If he was only after sex I think he wouldn't have spent all that time just talking with me, but instead have either left me or flirted with another girl. I'm scared of being hurt again, however I haven't felt that confident with a guy for a long time. what'd u think?? what do i do? Sorry it's so long.
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (19 January 2008):
 hi hun. Ive been there before with a guy i hooked up with on and off for about a year. One night he really made an effort with me, chattin and everything but one of his friends said to me twice "you can do so much better than him". Well his friend was right because the next night he told me he really liked me and then kissed another girl in front of me. If you really like this guy, move slowly, if he seems just up for some fun or mentions that he isnt into relationships my advice to you is leave it as these are the sort of guys who play girls. Its up to you but i wouldnt jump in there, get to know him, dont jump in and have sex and try and find out if its your personality he really likes or just the fun. Good luck but be very careful. Usually guys friends have reasons for telling you things about the guy you like and im sure if this guy was so great his friend would have told you that too but didnt.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 January 2008):
 If you are expecting a leopard to change his spots, you can't be surprised when he doesn't. If you are going to put your heart on the line with a guy that you already know is a user, and he stopped texting you the minute that you didn't go along with his plans and his way of thinking, he's already shown you his spots.
Oprah's favorite quote:
When people Show you who they are - Believe them the first time. - Maya Angelou
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