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writes:I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. The reason being becuase I dont know why he's dumped me. Lastnight we were fine, today hes told me its over. He wont say why. Ive spent all day thinking about it. I havnt been able to eat, work and I expect I wont be able to sleep. I feel as though Ive been punched in the gut. I was happy, I really, really liked him. He said he felt the same. I dont really care why hes finished it anymore, ive gone over so many different theories in my head that Im just too tired and upset to keep wondering why. What I need advice on is how to pull myself together, get him out of my head, stop walking around in a daze and forget him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): I am thinking of breaking up with my GF right now and it's for reasons that I don't know if I can tell her. The real problem is stuff about her than I realized from the beginning and I tried to put aside.
If your BF is anything like me then it's nothing you did recently. Maybe nothing your fault at all. It is probably something that bothered him for a while and he has decided he can't ignore it or cope with it forever.
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reader, sharlou17 +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Hi there...
And yes this is a toughie...I am going through the same thing at the moment and its really really hard so i know how you feel...
All i can tell you is you have to go through this bad time to get to the other side...Thats what i keep telling myself anyway...As i know from past experiences time is the ONLY healer...And during this bad time all you can do is do the things that you enjoy and please YOU, try and get out and about as much as possible...treat yourself if you can......Yes your still gonna have him on your mind and YES its really gonna hurt for a while...But it will get better trust me...Time will heal you...As i hope it heals me...
Please stay strong and i wish you all the luck...
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