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I've been cheated on in the past and it's keeping me from trusting the man I love...

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Question - (16 July 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have a problem trusting men that I have been involved with in the past or now. I made the mistake of not trusting my ex husband and he cheated on me because he was so frustated, or so he says.

Now I live with the love of my life and we are planning on getting married. I met him online and now every time he goes online to play a game or search information I find my self sneaking behind him trying to find something that he should not be doing.

I am so jealous and he is getting frustated. I am afraid I'm gonna loose him like I did with my first husband. Please help me! I'm so lost and I don't know how to stop being so jealous and overcoming this fear of losing my man to someone else.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006):

Every man should have a lie detector strapped to there body I'm gay and in the last 2 years been heart broken and cheated on twice

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (17 July 2005):

Tell him how you feel and get reassurance from him that hes not doing, or going to do, anything to harm your relationship.

Try to put the past behind you and move on, not all men are like your ex-husband.

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