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I've been attempting to have an anal orgasm, is it normal that sometimes it hurts a little during fingering...

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Question - (14 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am bisexual. And recently, I've been exploring my anus. I'm not old enough to buy lubricant (nor am I young enough to be a Freshman in High School) but I use lotion. I've been attempting to have an anal orgasm because I never had one before and when I can't, I'm still glad I was able to finger myself because it feels good.

Anyways, I was wondering if it's normal that sometimes it hurts a little during the fingering. It's not a bad pain. It feels good a little, but it goes away after I'm done. This is what usually stops me from fingering since I get afraid that I will get a hemroid or anything.

Also, if you have any tips, please help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008):

for both of you - putting pens or lotion is unhealthy and dangerous. your playing with fire putting foreign objects in your anus. lotion was not designed for using as lube so stop using it, there are chemicals in there that could seriously damage your body.

as for the pain - this is normal when you start stimulating your anus. i know that when i started having anal sex, it was uncomfortable for me but you get used to it.

just be careful - and your not too young to buy lube, you can buy it in your pharmacy - durex does lube for quite cheap. please stop using lotions for gods sake!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008):

Hi, I am a 15 year old male gay and I have had anal sex with my boyfriend a number of times. My best tip to have an anal orgi is to use one of those large felt pen things that are like available in like every shop that sells pens, and if you can, buy a one of those nubbed condoms to get the pleasure. I would like to help you with any other questian if you have any

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