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female
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30-35,
*xsecretsxx
writes: I have been dating a guy for months. He is amazing, we see eachother everyday, and i actually think I love him, so it hurts to say but i think that his ex, I'll call her Sara, and him and now secretly seeing eachother. He talks often about his ex's, saying they don't compare to me, and often uses lines like, "Did I tell you you were beautiful today?" If it were anyone else I would feel like it were a cheezy pick up line, but i feel strongely about him. Last night when he was checking his myspace(how cliche) he qiuckly deleted his entire inbox, when two emails, from Sara, were at the top. Of course I was curious about this considering one stated that it was unread. Why would he delete an unread mail unless it had something to hide? doing the bad thing i read the emails finding out that he wanted to hang out sometime, and according to her, "now it sucks, cuz like there could be something there if it weren't for one thing standing in the way.." I was torn apart by this. Three emails and suddenly i don't know what to think. Help?
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 first things first on myspace you can delete messages and get them out of the delete box and read them.
He may have something to hide or he may not want to hurt you as they could be just friends but you wouldnt see it like that.
You need to talk to him about this as it's very shifty behaviour but good luck. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Awww poor you,,
**Hugglie Time!!!**
In the mean time, talk to him. Don't harrass him about it, but say how you feel and that you feel, insecure, about her.
There isn't much more you can do about it. If there comes a point where you have to get over him, at least you'll find an easy oppurtunity to go and find someone who will love you, only you, and relationships of the past will be a distant memory.
I know that probably hit you hard, but you love him. He loves you. Just tell him how you feel.
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