A
female
age
30-35,
*RICAN
writes:can some one please tell me what it means when a man i have been seeing tells me" SORRY ,ITS NOT A GOOD TIME FOR ME AND YOU" AFTER I ASKED HIM IF HE WAS STIL INTERESTED IN ME Reply to this Question |
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male
reader, guillaume  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Hi,
I'm a man!
From what i can see, he is interested up to a point but is guarding himself from a committed relationship. He probably enjoys things as they are and doesn't want to move things along yet. (or ever)
So....what you must do is now become distant. Just ease off with your affection and availability...he may miss you. As it is though.....you may wait a lifetime on this guy to commit. As I said....he wants a piece of you in a little part of his life....but only a piece that he fits in when he wants. (I think) If you want more with a guy, then at this time, he is not your man! Good luck, G xxx
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female
reader, FRICAN +, writes (27 August 2008):
FRICAN is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncan any man please give his opinion please?
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female
reader, Kissey +, writes (27 August 2008):
..let him go and do what he's got to do. he has put himself first,and who knows he might mean it. if he comes back to you then you can decide if the time is right for you! take care of yourself you are special
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female
reader, DrPsych + ♥, writes (27 August 2008):
 It is a polite way of saying he is not interested. Sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear but men act on impulses and if they are into you they knock your door down. Don't feel too bad about it, it just wasn't mean't to be and there will be someone out there who will appreciate you and sweep you off your feet.
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female
reader, Helpful Hillary +, writes (27 August 2008):
It simply means their not ready for the commitment. Men do not like to admit their own faults. they don't see that by 'seeing' a woman can lead to something more, move on and find a real man that isn't scared of a relationship. this man you were seeing hasn't grown up therefore he wants his freedom to play women. he's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): has he just split up with someone? maybe he is still interested in you, he just needs a bit of time to get his head around this someone else?
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