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*elpful Hillary

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I’m 18 years old and many people may believe that I’m too young to be giving out advice as I may not have as much experience as others however I argue differently! I think by being young you haven’t got an old fashioned view on relationships and that I know what relationships are like. I’ve had many highs and lows where relationships are concerned and I’ve helped my friends out of many ‘sticky’ situations.

Many people tell me that I’ve got a wise head on my shoulders and that I’m a great listen with great advice. Also I’ve always liked to feel like I’m helping people out as it’s a good feeling afterwards.

I would like to be an agony aunt for my career but for now I want to get some practise.

I hope my advice is helpful and that you find yourself not worrying about your problems no more.

I would find it helpful if you let me know what you think. Any comments are helpful.

I'm going to talk to him about my insecurities but I need your advice before I do.

Q.   Well to start this me and my boyfriend have known eachother for about a year and a half before we started dating. We have been dating now for a few months now. We didn't have sex with eachother yet but we talk about it so we can get to know what...

A.   28 August 2008: First off you’re bound to be insecure if three lads have cheated on you! That’s more than any girl can take and I hope the boyfriend you’ve got now knows about your past. Another thing is that to me it seems you’re not confident about yourself which ... (read in full...)

I've been told that my colleague I was dating answered to personal questions about us at the office and encouraged the banter. I'm so hurt now!

Q.   Another day another problem thats how my life seems at the moment....was seeing a guy at work and now found out he has been letting guys take the piss out of me...lauging when they was saying to him...she loves you she wants to have your ...

A.   28 August 2008: Every woman likes being treated badly every once in a while we enjoy the chase, arguments and problems of it all, believe me your no different from any other woman! But this man was totally out of order and he was totally disrespecting you and in ... (read in full...)

Will I ever feel the way I felt about my ex about anyone else? Will Mr.Right ever come along?

Q.   dear cupid, i need your help. my boyfriend left me a couple weeks ago and im not quite over it. im in college and loving it but i really want a relationship ... i don't even think its to get over him because i am ... i was mad at him but im not ...

A.   28 August 2008: This is the situation girls wish they never find themselves in. The problem with this problem is that it’s going to take time. You may feel that this lad your going on about is perfect but he’s clearly not perfect for you. You say that your ex ... (read in full...)

In love with brother in law but my relationship with my in laws is not good now.

Q.   I am in love with my Husband's brohter. we are married for 3 years. but when i entered there house he was the youngest and the charming person who always loved me, adored me and did what ever he can for me. i have lots of problems with my in laws...

A.   28 August 2008: This isn’t right. You married his brother and he should be the object of your love. You may feel that you’re in love with his brother but you swore to love your husband. To tell you the truth I’ve been there done that. I felt that I was more ... (read in full...)

I met this guy that I like on vacation, we call each other and e-mail long distance, how do I keep his interest, as I would like to have a relationship in the future?

Q.   Hi well two years ago I met Jonathon on vacation we hung out a lot at the hotel and all. Nothing happened and he gave me his e mail,cell,and house phone number. It was sad for me though because he is from England and I'm from America. I know we ...

A.   28 August 2008: If he’s still replying to you then that’s a good sign. To me it doesn’t seem like you need to change anything! Your getting on well and your talking to each other a lot so he doesn’t seem to be losing any interest. If you want to keep him interest... (read in full...)

I want to move abroad with my new girlfriend and see the kids during school holidays. Should I go?

Q.   I cant stand my ex girlfriend anymore. We were together 10 years and have two children together. I cheated on her whilst she was pregnant with our second child and I am not proud about that. I am still with the girl I had the affair on her with. We ...

A.   27 August 2008: So you want to move abroad because of your ex? If that’s the only reason, don’t, it’s not right. It sounds that both of you were pretty terrible to each other and your right you shouldn’t be together no relationship can stand that amount of stress. ... (read in full...)

I accused my boyfriend unjustly and he has forgiven me, but his mother has not. Should I stay with him after this?

Q.   I have to be the most stupidest person in the world, well not stupid gulible. I accused my bf of kissing a member of his family (well his cousin to be exact) cause someone told me and I believed it so when I accused him it came out as if it was ...

A.   27 August 2008: okay the first thing is never believe everything you hear! evidence is the golden key. To be honest any mother would have a problem because one you have accused him of cheating, two accused him cheating with a family member and three he took you ... (read in full...)

My whole body and mind are crying out for sex but my gay boyfriend seems to have lost interest!

Q.   I am gay and have been with my boyfriend for a number of years. The last few years have been a real emotional struggle for me trying to deal with his decreased interest in anything even remotely connected to sex. Talking seems to be pointless as ...

A.   27 August 2008: It's hard when the person you love feels like their rejecting you but it's clear your partner doesn't see it that way. In many relatinoships the sex life can become flat as each partner gets used to the fact that they have eachother and no effort is ... (read in full...)

"It's not a good time for me and you"?

Q.   can some one please tell me what it means when a man i have been seeing tells me" SORRY ,ITS NOT A GOOD TIME FOR ME AND YOU" AFTER I ASKED HIM IF HE WAS STIL INTERESTED IN ME...

A.   27 August 2008: It simply means their not ready for the commitment. Men do not like to admit their own faults. they don't see that by 'seeing' a woman can lead to something more, move on and find a real man that isn't scared of a relationship. this man you were ... (read in full...)

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