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30-35,
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writes:basically i really like this girl but i feel like theres no way it would ever work out. shes my best friend and we get on great as in we are always together and we keep teasing/playfighting and we talk for hours on msn each day where she tells me all about her day and i make her laugh but the problems are- we are culturally different she is pakistani muslim and i'm a jap- shes really close with her family which is cool but i feel as if i can't offer her much in terms of a big happy family- she keeps telling about how nice the guy workmates are towards her, which makes me think that i'm not good enough for her ...i'm about average in everything.- shes never had a boyfriend and i'm guessing shes looking for something long term which is cool but i don't think shes wants it with me since she can get someone with more in common with herso what ya'll think should i stop thinking about her and just move on?
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reader, Keonna  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Am i the only who seems to see your getting mixed signals from her? one minute flirting with you then the next talking about how cute the workers are? and 9 times out of 10 your gut feeling is right.if you feel its not going to work then stop flirting with her/giving her signals that your interested.shes probably just as confused as you.but if you do want to be with her confirm things.Do you wan to be with me? Are you interested?^.^ questions like theseD-U-C-E-S
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 May 2010):
 I don't know, if you spend hours talking each night, then that is a good indicator that there is something there. What harm would there be in saying, "I really like our friendship, and have started to wonder if there isn't something more between us. Would you like to go on a date sometime and see if there is something there?" I doubt it would ruin your friendship, but make her aware of your feelings at the same time. Just be direct and clear. Don't say a lot of ummm's or ahhhh's if you catch my drift.
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