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Its my own fault he cant trust me, how do I make this relationship work?

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Question - (19 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *shxs writes:

I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he said he'd give me another chance. everything was fine for about 6 months after this. we got on great, couldn't have been better but then all of a sudden things started to go terribly wrong. i thought i could cope with it, that we would get through it, but now, a year and a half on it just seems unbearable now.

He can't trust me at all and every time i go out with my friends he thinks i'm with another boy! i know it's my own fault bu ti really do love him and don't know what i can do to get him to trust me and to make this work. he said to me this morning that he just wants to be friends, this really broke my heart, however he later said that he didn't mean it and he was just annoyed with me. i don't know what to think. i know that he loves me and i really love him but what can i do to make this work? cause i really want it to..more than anything. i honestly don't know what i'd do without him! please help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009):

I'm confused - what happened after the 6 months that made things so unbearable and why can't he trust you?

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