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*hanohchan
writes:how can tell if this relationship is right for uright now its just sex here and there thats how we were when we were kids 5 years ago i feel like ive gone back 4 steps.he hides his feelings and i dont know where i stand anymore what to do.i think he must like me because he keeps on coming back or am i being stupid and hes coming back because hes hes just waiting for his new girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Lin  +, writes (29 January 2007):
Look around da neighbourhood if this has been going on 4 5 years mayb new blood has cropped up and u just bn too busy to notice. So start going out with oher guys, dnt make it one...coz then it becomes a rebound issue, but explore the possibilities.
If he wants to get with you on sum random day, tell him you're busy...you have a life and you must make an effort to live it. If he's serious then he'll try to find out what's goin on...if he isn't in a few weeks ur gona c him with his new lay!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): If it is just sex, he could string you on like this forever...if you want him to behave differently, then you behave differently....don't have the "talk", don't ask him how he feels or what he wants because that means that decision is totally up to him.
What about you, you have a say in this too. If you don't like being treated like a doormat when he comes over for just sex, then show him the door, and don't see him again until he sends you flowers or asks you out on a proper date. We truly treat others how to treat us, if you don't think you are worth more and deserve better then sadly, neither will he.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): Ask him what he wants and remind him your just more than sex! Your a person with feelings. A relationship cannot be based around sex alone!
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (28 January 2007):
 The only way to find out is to ask him..try asking him whether its only sex he wants from you or whether he wants a proper relationship and is to affraid to say,thing is if his a type of guy who doesn't really show his feelings or don't tell you things, then your never know..and if you really feel something for eachother then one day its really gonna hit you hard when you finally do find someone else,try and talk to him and find out what he really wants from you.
xLEAHx
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