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Its hard to keep a positive attitude in life

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Question - (19 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *uliaash123 writes:

I expected more out of life...

every time i get my hopes up and i have this positive outlook on life i get disappointed

every situation i get into just tears my optimism down one more layer. hopefully i won't get down to nothing.

slowly day by day i feel the kindness, the sweetness, and innocence just fading

away.

its so sad its out of my control or just feels like it.

i guess if anyone wants to show support or give advice or something your welcome to.

(NOT SURE WHAT TO DO?) FEELING VERY HOPELESS..

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A female reader, juliaash123 United States +, writes (19 September 2009):

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when i referred to the kindness and sweetness fading away i meant others as well as me. i am the type of person who is ALWAYS there for others and pretty much as honest as a person can be (my pet peeve is liars) anyway i feel like all my kindness is just slipping away with the world's uneasiness and pressure and unkindness

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (19 September 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntI have to agree with you, though im not sure what your question is. Sometimes it seems like some people get all the luck some become rock stars some become accountants. It is what it is where not all destined to live an amazing life,if we have made a positive difference in the life of another thats about all we can ask for.

I suggest you find your Niche, what are you good at what do you like to do. I like God video games cars music movies and the internet and money, between those things im never bored and always have something to do.

"slowly day by day i feel the kindness, the sweetness, and innocence just fading' Are you refering to the kidness and sweetnes of others toward you?

well i want to be of some help but your qestion is knd of vague. I suggest you sighn up here and try helping others.

in the mean time if your feeling depressed tell someone close to you maybe you could get counselling.

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2009):

Blod agony auntIt's your life. And you're the one that's in control. Whatever you do, it's your choice. So if you're not happy get out there and do something about it. Don't hold back, be yourself and find what makes you happy.

You're still young too, so your life hasn't really got going yet.

Just don't forget that you're the only one that will ever live your life and be you. So you're in control and you should do what makes you happy.

Good Luck. X

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