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writes:Hi, it's been almost a year an am still thinking about her all the time, am the one all my friends ask advise, about their relationships, I can help them but not myself, songs remind me of her, an now seeing women in spring dresses, couples holding hands, seeing people dancing, I know it take time, but almost a year now, I wish a could switch these feelings off , like a light, I think she has already for gotten about me, am the good guy, an she's back with the guy she was going through treatment for abuse, she's AA , too, he's a drunk, we had a great time together, I thought, I treated her like an angle. How come I can help every body else but myself, I thought she was the women of my dream's, that I been waiting for all my life. I know it will take time , but am so tired of it, am still in love with her, I don't want to love her any more, the bad thing about it, is am back with my ex before her, the one who treats me like a king, we get along great, but then why am I still thinking about her all the time, I treat the one am back with really good, but I feel am doing her wrong, thinking about the other one, it's like am doing the same as the other one did to me so am hoping some one who has been through this can help me forget about her, but the bad thing about it I miss her so much, we had such a connection, but am tired of missing her, I just want to forget about her.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (9 May 2013):
 Hi, you are trying too hard. Let the houghts come. BUt dont let it stay too long. Keep busy and if the person you are with is not doing it for you, then you need some new excitement.
Dont force yourself to be with someone for the sake of it, your heart needs to be in it. This is why you cannot move one.
Take a break from this relationship and figure out what you really want.
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