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It's been 8 months since my lover and I parted so we could work things out with our spouses, but he told he he still loves me and thinks of me, what does this mean?

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Question - (20 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My lover and I split in January 2009. It broke my heart.we told our spouses that we were in love and they both wanted to work it out. so we decided to try one more time. it was hard to let go for the both of us. It has been 8 months, we spoke briefly the other day when I questioned his love for me, he said that he still thinks of me everyday and his feelings were very real and that he still loves me, he thinks.What does that mean?

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2009):

starfairy agony auntLife is for living, why live to be 100 and look back with nothing but regrets?

Follow your heart, do what makes you happy. Cold as it sounds, you can't live your life making sure everyone else but you is happy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009):

instead of worrying about your ex married lovers feelings and thoughts maybe you should be concentrating on making your own marriage work. after all you are married as well and it is unfair on your hb and his wife that you are being in contact with him. please have a heart and stop messing with this married man. he is with his wife and family.

you were having an illicit afair, you caused untold [ain and suffering so stop all this nonsense trying to analyse what the married lover is thinking and feeling. YOUR AFFAIR IS OVER. GET THAT into your head and stay away from him and his family. stop being such a coward and selfish woman. stop interfering in his life and in his wifes life.

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