It's been 14 years! I think he hates me now, but I want him back! Is there anything I can do?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My heart is stuck in the past and i find it hard to move on. I was only 18 when i met this lad, he was a friend and was perfect in every way although i never knew at the time, but i fancied someone else at the time and am a one guy girl and could not see what was in front of me . I tried to put him off me as he liked me too,by flirting with his friend, but you see i was mad with him for wanting me, thinking that as a friend he should not want me...all my male friends always tried it on and ruined everything... but i thought our friendship would remain. But it did not... i could not face him again and even left where i was working so i would not bump into him again. I always thought i would find someone else, but they have never even come close to the guy that he is. I end up with guys i dont particularly like...I am 32 now, and saw him in the exact same place i left all those years ago,last year and he looked at me as though he hated me... and it has pained me ever since.we have never spoke about what happened as we have never met since, but i havnt stopped thinking about him since we last seen each other...i dont know his situation now or anything so i wont wade in there...what do i do?

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