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Is there another way to tell if I'm pregnant?

Q.   Honestly how do you know besides a prenancy test if you are pregnant?And when do you notice your stomach about to rise? ...

A.   20 January 2008: hi The other ways to tell if you are pregnant is if you havnt had a period and your stomach could start to rise when your 14 to 20 weeks. xx... (read in full...)

I want my EX back... Do I get back with my EX?

Q.   I've been through it myself. That stage following the breakup where I can't help but want my EX back. Whether you dumped them, or they dumped you I think everyone goes through these feelings. Here are some reasons to (or not) get back together that ...

A.   20 January 2008: HI. Remember wot it was like at the begining and wot it was like in the end could u put yourself trough all the feelings again the good and the bad? Or is it now that you dont have him/her you want them back? X... (read in full...)

How do I make him forget her?

Q.   There is this boy, who I've met once. I've been talking to him online a lot and I really like him. But i know that he's in love with someone else. And i mean IN LOVE. But she's using him, even he knows that. How do i make him forget her? And...

A.   20 January 2008: hi Its he knows what she is doing then why is he with her still even if he is in love he should be able to make heads and tails of the thing right in front of him and its not down to you t make he see wot he cant see himself. xx... (read in full...)

He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?

Q.   me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...

A.   6 January 2008: You didnt ask for it do wot you like is best i say finish with him. All the best ... (read in full...)

I accepted my husband back but I feel I am doing all the effort!

Q.   for 2 yrs since my husband's dad died he has changed new job, selfish, wanted to do what he wants,lies. Anyway I finally kicked him out. 6 months later we are back together trying to work things out but i feel I am doing all the effort. A smal...

A.   6 January 2008: It seem that there is no trust between you any more. He may need some more time, saying that someone eles is using his phone isn't gd he should talk to you as you are his wife a the end of the day and not someone how he meet at the pub. give him a ... (read in full...)

I can't find an opportunity to buy condoms as our parents are restrictive, and I am also afraid they will not accept my bf of different race!

Q.   ok so it is not that we are embarrassed to buy condoms it is that every were we go our parents are there so we don't get the time to buy them and when we are alone we are not in a store to buy them.what should i do because if i tell my dad that i ...

A.   6 January 2008: Its seems that you a tring to do thinks right by having safe sex. I think the best thing that you can do its tell your parents. Even if they do not amrove you are only being honest, they will thank you later and you wouldn't have to keep looking ... (read in full...)

I'm underage and our secret is out. What now?

Q.   There is a guy i know and we really like each other but he has a girlfriend and I dont want to break them up as she hasnt done anything wrong to me so I can't steal her boyfriend as revenge. I know the guy thinks about me alot as he has told me. her ...

A.   6 January 2008:  He is a man so yes he it going to want to have sex if he like you as much as you think he does the he can wait for sex thats not as what relationships are about. If he is having all the feeling for you then why is he still with his girlfri... (read in full...)

How can I start up conversation with a shy guy I like at school?

Q.   Dear Cupid there is this boy I like at school but he's really shy and sticks to himself alot, and I talked to him and we seemed to get along but then he totally blanked me! I don't know how to start up a conversation again....

A.   7 September 2007: hi Yeh hun you should start o conversation again as he is shy you will have to take the first step and talk to him. xx... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend fancy his brothers girlfriend!?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years but for some reason i get the strangest feeling that he fancys his brothers girlfriend. Hes always paying her compliments, sticks up for her and when im at work he always goes around to see her when im ...

A.   7 September 2007: hi I dont think your reading to much into it him keeps going on about and spends more time with her than you then there must be something up try to talk to him hun. xx... (read in full...)

My relationship isn't making me happy anymore!

Q.   Dear Cupid: I am not happy. My relationship of 3 and 1/2 year is not making me happy, but I don't know if it me or him; or is it a stage that couples go through or are we just simply not meant to be. We are currently in a long distance ...

A.   7 September 2007: hi If you are not happy and not feeling like he is comitting to you then do what you think is bestdont stay if your not happy thats not a life you should live. xx ... (read in full...)

One of my friends is at an all time low... she hates herself. How can I give her her self-esteem back?

Q.   One of my friends is at an all time low... she hates herself. How can I give her her self-esteem back?...

A.   6 September 2007: hi The best thing you can do is be there with her you can make all the difference just by being there do something together. xx... (read in full...)

She's thinking of dumping her boyfriend, am I in with a chance?

Q.   Hi, I'm having a slight dilemma here, there's this girl I like, I'm pretty sure she likes me as well cause she flirts with me a lot but she's got a boyfriend though and they've been going out for a year, she's spoken to people about dumping him ...

A.   6 September 2007: hi Theres is very very good chance that you could get your girl if she is making such that you know about it she may want to be with you. xx ... (read in full...)

I need reference from my ex but I don't want to cause problems in his current relation.

Q.   I am running for an important position. My ex and I are not friends but are not on bad terms and he has agreed to provide a reference. I need ten and we were together for ten years. He called a couple of weeks ago and asked me to get back to him ...

A.   6 September 2007: hi If he can't talk for himself then there must be something if he said yes then his girlfriend must have a problem with it juust let them get on with it its her problem not yours. xx ... (read in full...)

What can I do to see him as just a buddy and not get attached?

Q.   I'm falling for my sex buddy who has a girlfriend and I don't want to end it because I enjoy the sex so much and the idea of telling him is awful because I come across so strong minded and kinky, what can I do to see him as just a buddy and not get ...

A.   6 September 2007: hi If you are being coming attached you should do what best suits you but if he already has a girlfriend then its not fair as it seems he just wants sex and nothing eles dont let yourself get to close and you end up hurting yourself because... (read in full...)

Should I just take a break with him and focus on my life?

Q.   Should I break up with him? I really love him and he loves me we have been going out for 8 months now. I'm just not into anything sexual or anything like that, I like him more as a companion right now. It is also probably becuase I am a big ...

A.   6 September 2007: hi At the end of the day it is your life too if you think that you dont want to be in a relationship then dont you dont have to end your friendship and you can still see each other but talk to him see how he feels your bith in it together xx... (read in full...)

What is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship??

Q.   what is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship?? ...

A.   5 September 2007: If you have cheated you should tell him if you cant keep it for the rest of your life dont keep it bottled up. xx... (read in full...)

Should I go out with him or not?

Q.   What shall i do? Hi i like this boy but i dont like him he keeps asking me out and i say no i dont know if i should say yes or not so then he knows how i feel can you help me?...

A.   5 September 2007: Hi If you like this guy you should go out with just try 1 date and go from there take one thing at a time. xx ... (read in full...)

What is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship??

Q.   what is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship?? ...

A.   5 September 2007: hi Wot have you done to mess up your relationship you could just tell him stright up. xx more info... (read in full...)

It's been 14 years! I think he hates me now, but I want him back! Is there anything I can do?

Q.   My heart is stuck in the past and i find it hard to move on. I was only 18 when i met this lad, he was a friend and was perfect in every way although i never knew at the time, but i fancied someone else at the time and am a one guy girl and could ...

A.   5 September 2007: HI If you still like this guy then you should try and talk to him it seems that you still like him more than just friends. xx... (read in full...)

Is is too late to ask for a change?

Q.   Ok I've been seeing this guy for about 7 weeks. It started off being some casual fun, but has since developed into something more serious, calling and txting several times a day. We agreed to keep things 'open' when we started. We both enjoy snogg...

A.   5 September 2007: hi It all depends on how you every feel about do you want to spend the rest od your live with him if so then do so. You want him all to yourself and no one else if you dont then let him go and move on. xx... (read in full...)

My guy said he wanted to get married now he says we argue too much!

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together now for 10 months and ever since the begining he always went on about getting engaged to me before my birthday well my birthday has gone now and i sort of mintioned it to him saying were u all talk he said can u ...

A.   5 September 2007: Hi You havnt be together for that long try not to push things give it some time if you have taken the spet in not having unportected sex then he it conmitied to you and may ask you soon. xx ... (read in full...)

Have I blown it??

Q.   hey, Iv'e been seeing a friend for 3 weeks and last night i was going to ask him to make official between us but i think hes blown me off. We walked home after going to the pub with friends and he said he was tired and wanted to go home alone be...

A.   5 September 2007: Hi Its not fair to play games but you did it for good he could be upset that you ask someone eles and not him tell him what you did and why he may thank you for it. xx... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my friend, but our relationship is not moving further

Q.   ive got a friend but i told him ive got a crush on him. he said hes got a crush on me, but our relationship is not moving further....

A.   5 September 2007: hi Try talking to him again it maybe that he needed a bit of space but dont let him go and dont bloke your feeling from him get everthing out in the open and talk he may be shy and need a bit help go out on a date it will help xxxx... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???

Q.   i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...

A.   5 September 2007: hi You are only 12 not saying you dont understand but if you are scared you should make yourself do something like having sex holdout for a bit make him wait you can still have fun just wait for a bit its for the best. xxx... (read in full...)

I am engaged but having an affair with a married woman who I love

Q.   I have to break up with a girl that I love, because she is married and I can't settle down with her. I have never told her how I feel about about her, partly to keep a feeling of being in control and self protection. I know that she has considered ...

A.   4 September 2007: hi You have been in a long turn relationship with the woman you love but having an affair with an woman who is married. If you love the woman you are supose to be married to how can you have an affiar fo so long you should finish with the ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of tricking him into fatherhood!

Q.   I have been seeing a man for nearly 1 year, I do not have romantic feelings for him and neither does he for me, he is special to me and I class him as a friend more than anything, we purely have each other for sexual satisfaction. I am however ...

A.   4 September 2007: hi What you can doing isnt always the best way to go you may want a child and you may have the suport but the child would be growning up with out a father how do you know if you got out back into dating you wouldn't find the man of your dreams a... (read in full...)

She wants some time out but I need to know where I stand. How do I ask her?

Q.   Me and the girl I've been dating recently decided to take some time off, and while it was more for her sake than mine, I couldn't help but agree that it was necessary. She's a girl who's never really been alone, and she believes she needs to make ...

A.   4 September 2007: Is being with her going to ruin your friendship well you will never know, it seems that she is scared of the same things that you are you dont want to ruin your friendship speck to her don't push ask how she feels she may need a little time just ... (read in full...)

We have both cheated on each other and I dont feel the same now

Q.   I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2.5 yrs within these year we have been ok, but over year she had a baby which is mine, and all we do is argue, she slept with someone who I know in her place but I let her off because I had a one night ...

A.   4 September 2007: It seems that you and your girlfriend have grown apart from when you first met and you both dont feel the same way no more. but cheating on each other isnt the best thing that you should be doing if you feel better with this other women then be with ... (read in full...)

Could it be that she feels awkward that we innocently met up as it's now dawned on her? (she has a boyfriend)

Q.   Wwhere I used to work I used to exchange occasional emails with a colleague, she was quite quiet and shy in the office but always warm and friendly towards me. She did have a boyfriend with whom she seemed totally loved up and the only time I ...

A.   4 September 2007: She may feel a bit awkward with the fact that she has a boyfriend but going out for a dinner dosent mean you are out on a date you can just be friends and nothing would happen let her know this it may work it may for the both of you being friends ... (read in full...)

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