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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm so fed up...I feel like a total bitch coz i got with this guy for the second time last nite, since he's been with his girlfriend. Both times it was just an inocent kiss, although he was up for more, which i stopped both times!Anway i know that'l just be forgotten.Really, i'm just so fed up with being the girl guys go to for fun when they're abit drunk. I'm done with flirting with guys and nothing really comes of it.I totally fell for a guy a month back( who i still really like so much), only to find out he was cheating on his girlfriend with me. So obviously eventually he went back to staying loyal to her.I don't want to be the bitch that guys go to when theyre bored of their girlfriends. Anyway, i just think it's about time i met a genuin guy who i could have a proper relationship with, who doesn't walk all over me...what am i doing wrong??
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Hi,
it is very simple, do not snog these guys when you first meet them.
The only way you are going to meet a nice guy is if you make it clear that you want to be friends first. Then all the guys who are only interested in a grope and a snog will stay away.
You have to look at what sort of guy attracts you as well. by the sounds of it you are picking the wrong type - users. Try and expand your social circle, that way you might just meet a nice bloke who hasnt stumbled drunkenly from a pub.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): You are your own woman. if ya wanna lose this "bitch" streak you've got, all ya gotta do is stop being like one! don't have casual sex (I am aware its tempting sometimes) and try to avoid hard parties/getting drunk for a while. when ya do find a decent guy DO NOT HAVE SEX STRAIGHT AWAY. show him that your decent and just date for a month or two, then take things up a step. and just see how it works out from there! =]good luck =]
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reader, Derekiniraq  +, writes (11 November 2007):
Stop having sex with them. Don't sleep with someone unless you are with them in a relationship. Get some self respect. You are too young to be having sex anyway.
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