It seems like she cheated then ended our relationship just to save face, and it is really hard for me to get over what she did....

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My college girlfriend and I "broke up" but still talked just about everyday. About three weeks later we were "a thing" again. Now four months down the road we still are and things are great. Whenever I'm happy she's super happy, sex is great, and our social lives with our friends are great. There's just one problem. Back when we broke up 4 months ago the next night she brought a guy back and hooked up with him. Guess they had been talking for two weeks. She said she never cheated though. But the day after she breaks up with me almost feels like she cheated, but just ended it to save face. Anyways I still can't shake the images from my head and at times it really effects this once great relationship. The whole reason it went sour in the first place? Yeast infection. Made for painful sex and so we stopped "not knowing then what it was" and as a result over a years time became more friends. Now with it fixed were best friends who have sex and love each other haha. It's just really hard for me still to get over what she did. And so I'm wondering is it right for me to be with her when I feel like this sometimes? When at times looking at her reminds menof it and makes me sick to my stomach? Please any advice would be great.

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