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female
age
41-50,
*eardrops
writes:Hi can anyone help me please? I have a lot of hurt in my life the last few years and during that time i have become quite ill and it means i am in hospital a lot. I still manage to hold down a full time job but i dont have a social life due to my illness. I noticed since becoming ill that very few friends stop by or even visit when im in hospital. Even when Drs thought i wouldnt live after surgery, still nobody really came. Anyway lately i am dating a guy i had dated a few years ago and for the first time since becoming ill i was happy. We went overnight to a beautiful hotel but hes very popular and very well known and I do not know from one day to the next if he will ring or text me or even answer my calls. He has not rung since we got home from the hotel and i am just so lonely and sad.I do not understand why people forget me. Its not like i moan or complain to people about being ill etc and i wear a mask and act jolly and happy even when my illness has me in agony,so why am i so alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You and I both go out somehow and make more friends... I dont know why they forget. My freinds and family are very shallow and superficial often. We can't blame ourselves for their weak characters. We have to love ourselves and give credit to ourselves and not become victoms of people that see our kindness to exploit. I hope you heal , good luck to you...and I hope your heart heals too , hugss Reina
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