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anonymous
writes:well.i went out with a guy a long time ago. it ended. not too nicely and we both went our sperate ways, intermididly 'bumping' into to each other and either making small talk or just not talking. Both of us got new partners, mine a very serious one, moved on and all that jazz. then about a year ago we sort of met up again by accident and had a ew emails. it was very pleasent. to be honest i was liking sort of knowing him again. Over the summer we had a wierd thing. which started off ok then. i duno on the last day it went wierd. he was almost in tears, i really wanted a bit of 'closure, maybe?'. On the last night he just kept saying sorry it was wierd.anyway. we live a long way from each other. and we had discussed how we werent going to fall out. so. basically, now he is just ignoring me. I sent him an email to see if he was okay, he ignored it etc.thing is he is a wicked guy, funny and that. it just hurts a bit because he is ignoring me. and i dont know why.any sugesstions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): thanks for your answers.
thing is its a bit of an enigma as he was the one who sort of strarted contact, and me and my boyfriend had broken up.
I dont know. its upsetting but i guess. i shall have to 'chin up'. I reakon if he ever does want to talk to me then I am not going to say no...
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Maybe it really hurt to see you again. You were glad that, even though after your split and you'd both grown apart, you bumped in to him again! You were all happy. Maybe he doesn't look at that in the same way? That seeing you and being friends with you will stir up some buried emotions. I have a few friends who'd rather not know their exes. Maybe that's it?
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reader, boopi +, writes (3 September 2008):
It seems as though he is still inlove with you maybe?
it hurts him to continue to contact you because he knows that you have a new partner and have moved on and he cant have you! you have to work out what YOU want and then tell him!
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