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It feels like he's comparing me to her...and I don't rate.

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Question - (3 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

The love of my life is slipping through my fingers. I ask myself the same questions over and over again - "Is it my fault? Am I not lovable? or even bearable in a relationship!?" Or perhaps we just werent meant to be...... The reason I'm feeling this way is because if feel he's constantly comparing to this other girl... singing her praises whilst putting me down. Theyve been best mates for years and I doubt he would ever have the guts to tell her he's got feelings for her (if he did, Which he does!) and I know for sure she wouldn't want more than friendship from him.

But why do i feel like hes settled for second best? and that if he had the chance do be with her he'd go running into her arms - am I just being jealous and paranoid? - I'm going crazy here!!!!!!!!!!

Please help

Luv K

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):

Maybe he doesnt want a realtionship with her.

Anyway, how dare they whisper about you behind your back! The question you should be asking yourself is 'do i want to be with someone who is treating me so badly?' IU think you would be wise to tell your boyfriend how you are feeling and if things dont change, then i would end the realtionship.

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