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Is this the real character of women?

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Question - (11 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2010)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Just a wondering.... Is there a submissive, feminine, sweet side to practically every psychologically healthy straight/bi woman?

Could this aspect be described as uninhibited, as in, the fundamental personality inside? Or is this behaviour only a response (to a man she is highly attracted to)?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010):

Sweet - most of the time

Feminine - On special nights

Submissive - NEVER

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

Are all men bastards?

Generalisations are never true. They are insulting.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

Kenj agony auntDefiantly not, every woman is different.

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A female reader, veronika Australia +, writes (11 March 2010):

veronika agony auntBeing submissive, feminine and sweet are all social constructs.

So, in answer to your question - no. Those 'traits' are not present in all women, because not all women are socialised to be submissive, feminine and sweet. Even deep down inside.

Some people have placid temperaments, which gives the illusion of being sweet and laid back, but generally being 'sweet' is a 'feminine' trait that is generally socialised into someone.

In short, women who are all those things you described were basically socialised to be that way, so not all women are like that deep down. Some may be, but not all.

Some women play up being submissive or sweet for a man though, because some women think that's what men like. So sometimes some women put on the act of being submissive and sweet and overly feminine.

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