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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: So I think im addicted to sex! Here's the story: For a while I had a dry spell without any sex at all. And THEN I joined a website which is dedicated to the "no strings attached" hook up. My intention was to find one guy or girl, have a little fun, and let that be that. So I found a guy,and after a few days of conversations, I invited him over when I was comfortable enough, and we did the deed. It was great and I felt wonderful! I had been a bit down in the dumps and the sex seemed to lift my spirits a bit. Pretty soon I came down off my high and the guy wasn't able to come over again (busy), so back to the website i went! And i met another guy. This guy and I talked for a while and before i knew it he was at my front door. He gave me the best sex i've ever had in my entire life! To make a long story short, i've had sex with 4 different men within the month of march! it's all been protected and whatnot, but what worries me is the fact that my most recent sexual adventure didn't have any feeling for me. I didn't have an orgasm, and it's like I wasn't even there. I was just having the sex to have it. I dont consider myself a slut or a whore or anything and this kind of sexual behavior is unlike me. it all started out as me being horny, but now I have no idea what emotion I have when i'm looking for a sex partner. Im just looking for one to have one. I dont know what this feeling is but I dont like it and it's almost as if I can't control it. Is this sex addiction and does that even truly exist!? And what steps do I take to get rid of it...please take this seriously. A lot of people just sleep around to sleep around...i'm doing it because lately i truly can not control it. It's like a different woman comes out when there's sex involved and that woman loves the sensation. Is this normal?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Well I think the idea from "strontiumdog" about finding a "friend with benefits" is a good suggestion for the time being, until your hormones settle a bit. And I don't think you are abnormal in any way. At your age, your body is striving to procreate, a perfectly natural tendency and the reason you get horny. It's biological, but dangerous to be indiscriminate, so find that good sex partner and ride it out.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Doesn't sound like a sex addiction... first you were horny and you sorted that out by getting sex... Now your just bored and doing things out of habit.
Stop having bad sex with strangers. Either go back to no-sex life, or find just one or two guys to call for when your in the mood to do some screwing.
Your just got into bad habits, stop now, there's no reason for you to continue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): well it seems to me you have been making up for lost time! you say you had had a dry spell, and now your at it like a rabbit! i dont think your a sex addict by what i have read but to put your mind at rest try this. dont have sex for about a month or 2 and then go on dates and find a boyfriend- and then have sex none stop. just try not to have sex for as long as possible. x
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