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writes:My boyfiriend of almost 2 years is for the most part a sweet heart. But When he is upset with me, ne treats me like crap, he blows me off when I apologize or try to make it up to him. He hangs up or yells at me when I ask him what's really bothering because the way he acts you would think I killed someone. Often he gets mad when he is dissapointed because of things that out of my control. Resently I send him some naughty pictures. He insinuaned that some of his friends saw them I got very upset. And ask for the pictures back. He ended up deleting the pictures and got mad at me for sending them to him "if I didn't want him to keep them." He even said that other girls wouldn't mind him having pictures of them. Is his behavior towards me my fault? I feel that it is. If so how can I get him to treat me better? Reply to this Question
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reader, ellie:) +, writes (17 October 2009):
 wat part of him is sweet???????? he sound like a jerk to me.. i would say dump him... there is a good chance he will go from yelling to actually hurting dump him and move.. there r better guys out there!! :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2009):
He isn't sweet at all. He's manipulative and dangerous. This is the sign of a guy who will treat you very badly in the future if you aloow it to continue. It's not your fault, and the fact that he makes it appear that way proves my point even more. You would be safer dumping him now.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (17 October 2009):
Is his behavior towards me my fault? No, it's NOT, but guys like this pray on women by making them THINK that it is. He's training you on how he wants you to think and feel, so that over time he can manipulate you.I feel that it is. If so how can I get him to treat me better? His method is working, he'll treat you better when you give him what he wants and put all his needs ahead of yours. That's all he wants!Seriously!!!!Guys like this are NOT going to be able to treat you (or any woman) the way you want and deserve to be treated. He's a manipulating jerk. He's immature and who knows where he developed his "relationshop" skills, but you need to look long and hard at this guy and remember the signs of how he's treating you so that you can spot them in the next few guys your thinking about dating and RUN THE OTHER WAY!Dump this abusive looser, his treatment of you will continue to get worse as you resist. Guys like this can become physically abusive when their mental abuse becomes ineffective- and the women say that they 'never saw it coming...'
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