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writes:Okay, well here's the thing...I am having trouble with the fact that I don't know whether I am lesbian or not. I don't know how to put this all in words but, it seems that everytime I see a girl you would consider hot I automatically start thinking about them in a sexual way. That probably makes no sense, like I had a dream the other night about me kissing a woman and I was taking the role of the man. I just need some insight if anyone else is going through this or what? I really hope that all made sense, but it just seems that nothing makes sense to me right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I'm the same, have no idea what to do. But my problem is i have a boyfriend and he means the world to me, but when we go to do anything under clothes i hate it. Think i just need to have a same sex experience and so do you. just to see which to prefer, it might even be both! who knows.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): I am, I don't think you are, or you wouldn't have to ask, believe me!! Dreams or no dreams, one knows!!! It's something inside, there really is no doubt.
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reader, dont_worry +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Relax, dont be scaredyou are passing through a stage where everything seems so confusing! but hey dont worry, its common.My advice, give it a try with guys and girls. After that things will be clearer. Decide which one you like better, maybe you are bi, maybe you are a lesbian or maybe you are just a confused straight girl. Enjoy, have fun and choose (: good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): hey gurl,im in the same situation im 16 yr old female and i think/fantisise bout being with women but i still lyk guys and have only eva been with a guy so i consider my self bi if u cant choose then just think u get the best of both worlds lol
good luck babe xx
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 October 2007):
 It's normal for women to fantasize about other women. The time to find out is if you have a "same sex" experience. I've known women who during the fantasy phase see it as an enjoyable experience, but once actually tried, some find it's not as enjoyable as the dreams.
Just because you look at the, and have dreams, doesn't determine if that's the direction you're really going to take.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Give it time. You don't have to give yourself a label. If you end up being whatever you become, you are still you.
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