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*horty96
writes:Everyone hates that guy that only lasts about 5 minutes in bed, well I seem to have found the complete opposite! The guy I recently started seeing is absolutely perfect, and when we slept together it went on quite a while which I really enjoyed at first, but now we've been seeing eachother a while and the sex is still brilliant at first, but to be honest I start to get pretty sore and tired. He takes a very long while to orgasm and sometimes we've had to resort to him finishing himself off because I physically cant go on any longer! Is there any way I can maybe speed him up, anything I can do to help? Or is there really such a thing as a guy who lasts too long in bed?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 November 2014):
 Chigirl has this one snagged.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2014): I know exactly what you mean. For me personally I prefer lots of forplay but not as much intercourse itself. My husband lasts forever. I think he has another end of the robe. He has a hard time finishing. It literally takes him sometimes 45 minutes. At firsti wanted to be there for him,,lol, but then after being swallen for days and hurting I put a stop to it. So we do it and then he does it himself.
I don't even see anything wrng with 5 minutes, honestly. If a guy pleases you before and you have orgazm before intercourse, I don't mind even a few minutes of intercourse. Women rarely orgazm from intercourse anyway.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 November 2014):
 Theres lots of guys like him out there. When you get to your point of being done, he will need to finish himself off, or you can use your hands/give oral. A way to make these men come fast during intercourse, is to provide plenty of foreplay first.
I have also discovered that most men have a trigger point on their penis or elsewhere on the body. Stimulation on this point makes them orgasm qickly. So happy hunting!
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