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My girlfriend is getting more pleasure from sex than I am. How can I feel what she feels!

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Question - (24 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is there any way to increase pleasure for the guy during sex foreplay or anything? It is so depressing knowing that my girlfriend is getting 9x more pleasure then I am and I barely feel anything. She says her pussy feels like its on fire with tinglyness and im just thinking "I am not feeling any of this at all man the things i would do to know what she is feeling" So. Is there anyway to make a guy get more pleasure the way a women does... at all? "Everyone is created equal" ....what a bunch of bullshit....

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A female reader, KrissyA Canada +, writes (29 March 2010):

KrissyA agony auntGirls have 80,0000 nerves in their sex organs to pleasure and Boys have 50,000 nerves! Its natures way of balancing out the fact that with the greatness of sex comes the pain of childbirth! We get more pleasure but feel more pain!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

Well its odd that it doesn't feel that great for you. Does she or would she ever be open to oral sex. A lot of the time oral sex can feel more pleasuring than sex. Is the reason you don't feel anything because her pussy feels loose. ( Keep in mind a loose pussy does not mean people have slept around!) If so then I reccomend she do keagal exercises, its basically where you flex your vagina inward. It tightens up the muscles and makes to to where she feels tighter. Because I don't really know how you have sex ( positions, what you both like etc.) I can't really tell you much, it would be better if you could describe just a bit more. I mean is the same routine, or do you spice it up a little, sometimes trying different things will help with how sex feels for you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

it is a well known fact that woman's pleasure is much more intense than man's once she is aroused. Don't worry, that is normal. God has made it like that.

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (24 March 2010):

fishdish agony auntso..you don't have sex yet? is she just handjobbing you? maybe look into oral, or give her tips on what feels good to you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

Ask her to return some of the pleasure. Try oral sex and spice things up. Look up different positions that would help intensify your pleasure.

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