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writes:hii need some help. recently me and my boyfriend split up because our relationship was fading and when we did, i was relatively okay about it: it was mutual and we stayed friends(even though things were weird for a little while). this was in May. he hasn't found someone new and i've realised that i do love him and i miss him like crazy. everything seems to be content when he's around and i'm in his arms: he's perfect. i know we're probably not soul mates or whatever, but for now he's perfect.- but i know that you can't force someone to love you. and contradictingly, can i do anything to win him back?i want him back, but i don't know the best way to go about it. any ideas?thanks for your help- its much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): i think the best way to win him back is by talking to him, and try to figure out what he really wants. one of the best ways of truly being in a satisfying relationship is when both parties actually wants to commit 100% towards the relationship. i wish you luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): I'm in the same boat. You don't want to sound desperate but at the same time, you want to shake them and say "DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING?"I say right now just be his friend and don't come on so strong. Just let things hang for awhile. Never say never and don't ever give up hope. Things happen for a reason and maybe you are meant to be. They say that if you let love go, if it is meant to be then it will come back to you. I kind of look at it as the movie The Notebook---separated for years and finally one day come together and its like nothing has changed. That's when you know it is real.I'm going to visit my ex after being apart for almost a month and a half. I'm not going to mention a thing about getting back together. I will just know when I get off the plane---if he gives me that look, then it is meant to be. Just sit tight for a bit and see where things go--maybe he just needs some time to sort things out and figure out his next steps in life. Hey! That's ok! Just let him know that you're always there for him. Good luck!!
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