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writes:Hello,So, here's my thing. I tend to fall in love, like deathly in love, with someone. And lately I've fallen in love with a very good friend of mine and just found out that she likes someone else. Now, this is the second time this has happened to me and when this happens to me, I get deeply depressed for days at a time and it scares my friends. Is there anyway to prevent this from happening to me? Is there a way to help relieve the heartbreak I feel? Any type of advice will help me at this point. Thank You.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (16 February 2008):
 You are relying on someone else to make you happy which is a very unhealthy way of living. It basically gives someone the tv remote to you emotions they can control you and make you feel as they want you to feel. You need to figure out why you do this. And this makes a lot of people find you less atracive if you rely on them to make you happy. Kind of makes them lose repsect in you.The only help i can give you on this matter is to find something else to focus on so you mind doesnt shift to this all the time thus making you more happy it helped me.And you have plenty of time to find others who you will feel the same for and its impossible for what has happend to you thus far to continue forever.Good LuckGooD Luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Why are you as dependant as you are? Seems to me you feel more adequate when in love? That would explain the falling quickly. You want the love, if you can't get it now, you might loose the opportunity. I'd find out what's going on with you that creates the urgency and the inflated desires to be in love.
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