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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well there is this guy and for the longest time I was hopelessly in love with him. If he needed or wanted anything material or intimate, emotional? Definitely physical... I got it for him. Being in love with someone is nice but in my case it just hurt too much. He knew how I felt and I believe he took advantage of it. He denies it tho. But it doesn't matter because I am Sooo over him. My problem is that we share many mutual friends and regardless of his behavior towards me, he has been a great friend to others. Sometimes it seems as if He is trying to make amends but as always empty promises. I just don't believe a word he says. He is now starting to gossip about me amongst our buddies...(what is up with me, why am I so bitchy lately, where am I going and with who, etc.) Some in the group notice it more than others. The thing is I am so embarassed to admit to them that I had a crush and did all sorts of things to show him my feelings in hopes that he would like me back the same way. I know it takes time to fix broken relationships, I don't have the energy to fix this. I see him practically everyday but never alone anymore...Is there a chance we can be friends again? Should I pack up and move to the west coast? Im confused and my head hurts....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Ok well its good that you are over your crush this makes it easier in my eyes. Ok packing up and moving away is just a bit extreme we cant run away from our problems in life we just need to fix them and make them work.
If you want a friendship with him then try and get him on his own ask him to meet you and tell him that you want to be friends again, just platonic friends nothing more, tell him that you were distant towards him for a while because you felt that he took advantage but you are wanting to forgive and forget it now and go back to the way you both used to be.
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