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writes:What do you make of this?...A few times when my b/f and I went to our favorite pub for a drink, there's this one gal at the pub who seems to be watching my b/f with "interest". At first I thought it was my imagination, but I noticed that if he went out on the patio to smoke, she suddenly has to smoke too. The next time he went out I tagged along. She got up, like she was going too, then saw me going with him, so sat back down. Later when I went to the bathroom, I found her at his table, talking. He says it's nothing. He didn't even remember what she was talking about, just small talk. I think she's a snake that cannot be trusted. I would never behave this way toward a man who is obviously with someone else! What gives? Should I be concerned?....Do you think my b/f is giving out signals? Or is she just a skank, who's trying to steal him away from me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Well yeah she probably fanciesz him but I doubt he's been asking for it consciously
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reader, romany  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Well..........if it were me, i'd wait till she goes to the toilet, then follow her in, and ask her what her interest is in my bloke, just because i'd really need to know that they dont share some seedy secret, or know each other more than he is admitting to,
If she were to say, we are just mates, then i'd tell her to stay the fuck away, or i WILL BE talking to her again, but I won't be quite as nice next time.
If you cant do that, then you'll have to speak to your boyfriend, tell him to tell her to do one, if he refuses, then I think it would be time to think that maybe there is a little more than meets the eye.
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 I agree with 'ask oldsister". if you trust your boyfriend then this isn't an issue really. You have your boyfriend, she does not.
Actually this reminds me of my friend's issue, very similar. He has been dating this girl for about 5 months and before that he knew this other girl was very interested in him. This other girl kept doing the exact same things to him that this girl was doing to you. It did bother my friend's girlfriend but this is what she did, she brought it up to my friend and he wasn't mad or anything, he actually agreed that the girl was annoying and cut off contact with her.
so don't be afraid to talk to your man. communication is key :)
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