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writes:I need to hear someones opinion on this. About 5 months ago I met a girl through an organization we both work for. I don't have many friends where I live, and she was friendly and we decided to meet to go see museums etc. We met several times, and I always had a great time, and was happy to get a new friend. She also introduced me to other friends of her, and it was all good. About a month and a half ago me, her and a couple of friends of hers went out for drinks, and we all had fun and laughed. I thought it was all good, but then after that I have barely heard from her or seen her (only seen her at the organization). I sent her messages on facebook that she never responded to. I invited her to do things with me, but she has only written back that she is busy. Not suggesting to meet up any other time. Yesterday I asked her to join me for a free concert, and all she wrote back was that she is busy.. But adds a "kiss" at the end. So she seems still friendly. But then today I see on facebook that she and another friend of hers (that I have also met, and who I went out with for drinks last time) were having drinks together with some other people. I feel bummed, because I wonder why she didn't invite me to come along? I'm wondering if she doesn't want to be friends any longer? Do I wait even longer (it's already been nearly two months), or do I just stop asking her to meet me, as she will just say no?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (23 June 2013):
Hi there. Her always saying she is busy, could be true or just mean that she isn't interested.
There comes a time where you have to make a decision about this on your own.
And it seems that time could be now.
You are getting very little response from her, if any, and so it seems almost a waste of time pursuing it any further, don't you think?
It could be time to find yourself some other friends.
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