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writes: So I have been talking with a good friend of mine and she is upset about her size.She thinks that no guy will ever like her because of her size.I think she is very pretty and her size doesn't matter.She is a size 18, she has a tiny waist but big chest and big hips/thighs.I don't see any problem with her size. She says she wishes she was my size(I'm not much smaller, I'm a size 15)So what do you guys think? Is she right to feel that no guy will like her because of her size? Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 No way! There are so many sites devoted to men who are attracted to *only* larger size women! What she finds unattractive, some guy will not want to keep his hands off of. There are cultures who revere women who are larger as a status symbol for their husbands' prosperity and virility.
I agree that her health is always an issue, but that doesn't mean that she is doomed to be unlovable. Far from it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2012): It's not even a matter if she will be liked by guys or not, it's a matter of her health. Size 18 for a young woman that didn't have any children yet is big!I m not thin. And I'm size 6-8. I'm sure she looks quite overweight, despite the fCt that she has thin waist line. 18 is just too big, means that she carries much more weight that she needs, Nd her heart is doing quite a Job keeping her alive.Men are attracted to healthy women, so much weight is not healthy. Everyone have their preference of course, but this what nature makes us do: choose healthy partners to reproduce. Instead of encouraging her to stay just the way she is encourage her to drop all this extra weight. While she is young, the older she gets she ll attract all kind of illnesses that can damage her health, like diabetes, heart condition and so on.Men will come, whAt she needs to do now is to take care of herself!!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 August 2012):
 No, she's not right. But the problem for her is that she doesn't realize she is lovely just as she is, so she may not attract a guy. The irony is that she won't attract a guy because of her dislike of her own body, not because of her body, if that makes any sense. Her attitude is what will keep her from finding a man, if this keeps up.
Encourage her to eat well and do some exercise as this will help her mood and her opinion of herself. Yoga is really good for this.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 There's always someone for everyone.
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