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Is she pushing me away or just stressed out?

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Question - (4 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My gf and I have been dating for about 4 months now and everything has been simply amazing up until about a week ago when she tells me things feel different. We never fight, we always poke fun at eachother and have a laugh. We both have so much in common and have told eachother, up until recently; that we love eachother and miss each other. She told me that we need a little more space then what we already have so she can read, learn things she wants to learn, and just have time to herself. But since our talk she doesn't seem interested anymore, doesn't say I love or miss you, and hardly even talks to me like I bug her or something. I wanna hang out with her all the time and she doesn't seem to want to anymore and when she finally wants to I've already made plans with friends and tells me I don't seem to want to hang out anymore. I just don't know if me trying to talk to her like nothing has changed is the right thing anymore. I don't know if she's acting this way from all the stress on her plate or if she's trying to push me away without saying it. Anyone know what I should do or what's going on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

I felt this recently with my boyfriend, we were seeing too much of each other and I felt I could nt do the things I wanted to do because he was always around, so I asked him if we could cut down the time we saw each other, he was hurt, but agreed to it, I feel better and have just started to miss not seeing him as much, so maybe if you give her the space she needs for a bit you might find she will want to see you more.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt i dont know..but i have some female friends, and they tell me that they dont like when a guy is clingy-as in always wanting her to be with you at all times, and no one else- well they dont like

are you anything like that??

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