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Is she annoyed at me for something I did?

Q.   I talked to a girl for 3 months. Fell in love. I asked her out 1.5 months after meeting. She had a bf but they broke up 2 weeks later. We finally went 'out' (i dunno if it was a date) but I didn't make a move. I thought I messed up but we talked ...

A.   20 December 2010: Thanks everybody. have a merry christmas y'all!... (read in full...)

Does she know it is a date?

Q.   We're both single. We're going alone, just the 2 of us, to an NBA game. I asked her 'out' while she had a bf and she asked if there were only 2 tickets. I said yes. She agreed to go but things came up. Two weeks later she broke up with the bf. I ...

A.   20 December 2010: Thank you for your time! We are getting married in two months!!... (read in full...)

Is it too much to say 'love ya' in a text before we have gone on our first date?

Q.   Theres a girl I like. Were suposed to go to a game together in a few days in what I'm assuming is our first date. My question is whether its alright to text her somethin like 'happy thanksgivin ...

A.   26 November 2010: Wow at the anonymous answerer. I agree, I think ya can express well through letters or other forms of 'written' communications. I guess you're all right though, the 'love ya' we exchanged were during the course of a convo, this would be outta ... (read in full...)

Is it too much to say 'love ya' in a text before we have gone on our first date?

Q.   Theres a girl I like. Were suposed to go to a game together in a few days in what I'm assuming is our first date. My question is whether its alright to text her somethin like 'happy thanksgivin ...

A.   26 November 2010: Wow at the anonymous answerer. I agree, I think ya can express well through letters or other forms of 'written' communications. I guess you're all right though, the 'love ya' we exchanged were during the course of a convo, this would be outta ... (read in full...)

Is it too much to say 'love ya' in a text before we have gone on our first date?

Q.   Theres a girl I like. Were suposed to go to a game together in a few days in what I'm assuming is our first date. My question is whether its alright to text her somethin like 'happy thanksgivin ...

A.   25 November 2010: Thank you all for the answers. It's a strange situation, really. We've gotten to know each other really well since we've texted for hours on end for some time. The reason we haven't gone out till now is because her folks can't find out we're hanging ... (read in full...)

What do I tell her when I ask her out?

Q.   Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....

A.   8 November 2010: There is history though. We've gotten to know each other pretty well during this month and a half or so only she had a bf. Thanks for the answers! Does this info change things up a bit?... (read in full...)

Should I ask her out? I'm having trouble with doing it?

Q.   There's a girl I know that I like. I think she liked me like a month ago but I'm really bad at that stuff and didn't really think. Anyway, I want to tell her I like her as more than a friend But I'm having trouble with that. This girl is great. S...

A.   1 November 2010: Thank you all for the answers. It's good to get a different range of them. Yesterday, we talked for 5 and a half hours and it was great. Let's see how it goes...... (read in full...)

Old flame resurfaced, and I'm feeling strange and confused again?

Q.   I was over her a girl who for sure liked me bigtime. My best friends said so, family friends, heck they even thought we would be a good married couple even though we were only friends. I was in love with her and asked her out twice with a lot...

A.   20 April 2010: Even if I asked her out twice already? Thanks for answering! ... (read in full...)

This girl is driving me crazy!

Q.   She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes th...

A.   26 January 2010: I knew I asked this already, my bad. But CaringGuy, I have been puttin' it off. I'mma get it done tomorrow! I mean I'll try lmao. Thanks y'all. ... (read in full...)

Does she have a thing for me, she's acting kinda wierd?

Q.   She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes th...

A.   18 January 2010: Hey thanks a lot guys. What do I say when I ask her out?? Do I have to tell her she's amazing right now, or just ask her out to get to know her better? Thanks again both of you. ... (read in full...)

Ladies, was I led on? If so for what?

Q.   I've known her for 7 years. She's asked me if I have a girlfriend like 3 times, always touches me, hugs me, even kisses. She asked if I missed her, takes my food, laughs at every one of my very stupid jokes. She asked for my number, then ...

A.   7 January 2010: I've tried to back off. I've been chasing other girls, I don't mope around. Still, Everytime she sees me...man. Tons of hugs, she called for my bday outta no where, everything. This makes me start thinking about her again. She wouldn't stop talk... (read in full...)

I really like this girl and want to ask her out but I have been thinking about my ex lately....

Q.   Here's what she does: I sit next to her and she always puts her feet very close to mine, so much it makes me uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to others. Once, she had her leg touching mine, noticeably. I moved away, but put it back touching ag...

A.   28 December 2009: You guys got me thinking now lol. She's kinda on the innocent side. My friends say she's not hot at all but pretty (?). I'll just ask her out when we get back from break. Thanks for your time! ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl and want to ask her out but I have been thinking about my ex lately....

Q.   Here's what she does: I sit next to her and she always puts her feet very close to mine, so much it makes me uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to others. Once, she had her leg touching mine, noticeably. I moved away, but put it back touching ag...

A.   27 December 2009: Thanks for answering. Would it change things if I said she's not a flirty girl at all? ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl and want to ask her out but I have been thinking about my ex lately....

Q.   Here's what she does: I sit next to her and she always puts her feet very close to mine, so much it makes me uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to others. Once, she had her leg touching mine, noticeably. I moved away, but put it back touching ag...

A.   27 December 2009: Thanks for answering. Would it change things if I said she is not a flirty girl at all? ... (read in full...)

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