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Is revenge a good idea?

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Question - (5 December 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2012)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hii im a PG student... and i have ben tortured by my lecturer a lot.. she also encourages other lecturers to give less marks even though they give good marks for me... she never teaches well.. i dont attend her class fully... i still have attended 60 % of her class... still she tortures me mentally by differentiating...

it irritates me a lot... i cant complaint to higher authorities as its of no use ... they wont take any action for sure...

i feel like doing some pranks on her to make her feel the same way what me and my friends have felt..

that lady lecturer has made the same way to my friends also... dont know what to do for her....

badly want to torture her and take revenge....

dont know i may be wrong... but really want to ...

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (10 December 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntRe-read what So Very Confused wrote to your followup.

You've got a new teacher, everyone has a problem with her, that's going to be obvious to the supervisors of the teaching staff. If it is as you describe then you are not the only one who feels discriminated against.

Speak to your advisor about being transferred out. Show up, do your school work and don't engage beyond that.

Twenty three is a good age to give up ideas of revenge. :)

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntOP your last two follow ups indicate to me a lack of maturity that is harming you in this case.

IF the problem the new instructor has is with EVERYONE, then it’s not personal and you need to just tough it out.

In life, you will learn that we often have to put up with bosses or co-workers we do not like.

Better to learn to kill them with kindness than sulk and misbehave.

I wish you all the best. ONE bad class can ruin your GPA and you clearly are more concerned about punishing the teacher than taking the best care of yourself that you can.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012):

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probably u guys dont know the practical situations here... and dont know how it feels to be discreminated...

many students have problem,its not only me.... well im a regular student in the coll.. infact m other lecturers have appreciated saying im a enthusiastic student... thats just bec the way of they r ...

infact im 2nd good scorer..... wat ever ... its been very torture from her.... i want to get rid of her.... she is the fresher... our class is the 1st class she is handling...

well thanks for the answers... and to be ur kind information im 23....:P:P:P:P:):):):)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012):

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here there is no need to attend all the classes.... i just dont want to see dat lecturer any more.... one more guy actually complained about her.... and she still continues to show the non sense attitude....

i have always done well in her subject reading self... not a big deal.... but she is sick... let her be... its just the internal marks with her... university exams i ll do welll...

let her show her shitty attitudeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (5 December 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you don't show up for class and you don't do the work, if you sit in class and daydream childish dreams about revenge, then you will not get good marks in her class. How about transferring out of her class if you can't stand her? Or if you can't, show up for all her classes with an attitude that you will learn what you can from her, no matter how poorly she teaches, and drop the daydreaming in class bit.

Are you 22-25 or 12-15? Because right now, you sound like a little girl.

The class is temporary. Her being your teacher is temporary. Your attitude and your behavior you carry with you permanently. How about trying to be the best student you can be, despite the trials and tribulations of lousy teaching?

Be a bigger person.

Revenge is for small-minded, immature people.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntthe fact that you only attend 60% of her classes is why you are marked low. Here that's not even acceptable passing attendance.

LIVING WELL is the best revenge.

show up 100% of the time, study hard do well in the class. that's how you do your best.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (5 December 2012):

Honeypie agony auntYou know the saying: "Two wrongs never make a right?"

Don't sink to her level. And perhaps she is hounding you because you are only attending 60% of her classes. She is making an example of you for her class - maybe to try and get others to attend more.

I assume you can't transfer class?

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