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writes:I feel in love with a 21 year old guy I'm 36 we have been together for 2 yrs he just moved out on his own with a male roommate He decided 2 weeks before that happened to breakup with me.. There was no reason for it . Everyone is confused including me. We r soulmatesHe knows this but wished to b alone nd says he enjoys it. But he's talkn to other girls so that's not alone I told him he said yeah it was cause he's not committingWow could he be more of an ass. He's been really rude to me never has that happened.We talk its been a month I still hurt. This isn't me..
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reader, brishii  +, writes (4 September 2009):
i agree with the last answer...i´m close to 20 and the guy i´m currently interest in is 35...and the reason why i like a guy like him it´s because he is a MAN...i like him not because he is just older but because i find myself more mature than the rest of the people my age...the problem with this guy it´s probably that: he has the maturity level of a 21 year old (and rumor has it, women mature faster than guys), when they think they have to bang every female that crosses their path or they wouldn´t be enjoying life...there´s nothing wrong with you, you are thinking like any racional and mature person would do, and he doesn´t deserve you if he thinks that commiting is waisting or loosing his life...go and find someone who has already set his priorities clear, someone who knows who he is as a person and as a man...my best wishes
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reader, APowerfulEnergy +, writes (4 September 2009):
Hello. First off, I can identify with the age difference part as I like a man way older than me. Guys around my age, since your guy is 21 years old are very immature. Most of them anyways. If he broke up with you for no reason, he is probably just being the typical 21 year old. Not all 21 year old men are like that, but this one is. I don't know what to tell you because I am sort of going thru something similar.Maybe age has nothing to do with it, but the maturity level of a guy. I would be skeptical, search for answers, and you will get them dear. :)
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