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writes: I am curious about the old saying "Size doesn't matter". I am considered average size at 6 inches(from what I've read anyway), but find myself very insecure thinking that I am small. I am quite thick, but fear that I should be longer.I have never had a problem pleasuring a woman and bringing her to climax because I also use my hands, tongue, etc...because I feel I need to compensate for a small package. Very insecure!!Does size matter if the technique is good? Is 6 inches small? Is is just a matter of preference for women (like how some men like large breasts and some don't)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): hi i may be young but im great in bed im not bragging my penis is 5.5 inch long and 6inch circumference i like to pleasure a girl more then myself i get more out of it i found that working both opening and her tender spot is the right way to go and the best thing to do befo u hav sex is foreplay also to ask what position she likes best before ya have sex u shouldnt be worried about how big you are but futher better your skills with what u do have
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2005): Average is the perfect size, no woman enjoys walking into work bow-leged the next morning. A large penis really is a preference like large tits on a girl are to men. But what we really care about is if you can get us to that point and most men can't so you are already way above average.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2005): hi! J here! Please! don't let these women fool you, size matters... im 8", well 7 3/4", a buddy of mine is average... we have had a few girls, together, on a number of occasions and trust me, they like the size, Yes using it is a plus but my buddy is just as good a lover as i am, still the women want size, at least to try it. I will say this, women dont care to much for oral with an over sized penis because they cant suck that long, it tires their jaws, .....however back to the penetration during sexual intercourse keep in mind position "does matter and is the key".....
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reader, Babi +, writes (7 December 2005):
If size matters to a women that much then we all no what that women is!Although there are certain spots that can be hit if a penis is larger!Many women don't actually climax through just penetrative sex, so its good that you use diferent techniques!I think from that it makes you better in bed than a bloke with a big willie who pushes it in and out and makes the girl feel good but not climax compared to a bloke that has a smaller willie that pushes it in and out makes a girl feel good but also uses their hands, tongues ets which will actually make her climax!Keep up the good work!
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reader, Ellen +, writes (6 December 2005):
another female to let you know that size does not matter. there is so much more than that!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (6 December 2005):
 Here's the truth: only men notice penis size, and most men think theirs is too small. It's not. Men who watch porn movies get the - wrong! - idea that nine inches is desirable and makes women go "oh yeah!". Actually, nine inches would make the average woman go "Yee-owch!"; now, major discomfort is hardly going to make sex something she begs for, is it?
Six inches is *fine*. So is five. So is four. Really! Remember the old adage? "It's not what you have; it's what you do with it?" It's true. I have girlfriends whose boyfriends and husbands have had penises just a few inches long. It's not a problem... because sex for women isn't just all about penises.
I've said it again and again (and again!). The majority of women don't care how big or small your willie is... what we're interested in is that you use it sensitively, and that you're a fun, inventive and giving lover.
Big penises look nice, but that doesn't guarantee pleasure for a woman (my ex is a case in point - though I'll spare you the details!). Stop worrying, stop focussing on it. Instead concentrate on what you can do with what you have to make your partner's experience something she'll want to come back for again and again (and again!)
Have fun. Don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): just think if 6 is the average that means most men are 6! so your no different, just be confident with your size because its a decent size and as you say you can already pleasure women!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): oh dear. dont think u should bother urself really. I am a woman and size doesn't really matter to me. for me it's not all about the sex but the tenderness and friendship. everyone one is different and have different preferences. u will meet someone who likes u just the way u are. take care and wishing u the best.
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