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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i met this really nice man online we hit if off straight away and met not long after since we have seen each other every weekend and rang and text each oher every day without fail he seemed so keen we even went way for the weekend he met all my family and i was going to meet his the one weekend we couldnt meet coz of work and he couldnt get the car which was fine it was only one weekend out of 2months of not seeing him any way he rang me on the sun and said he had been thinking the the distance was to much that he wanted a a girlfriend in the week not just at the weekend and he couldnt see us developing in the in the long term to the next step. i was so confused and upset he only lived an hour away i know he always had to travel to me coz i cant drive but i was willing to get the bus now he wants to stay friend even tho he like me and thinks we would be very happy if he could put 100% in i am falling for him we have something worth fighting for but i cant make him see that i know its worth it its makeing him see we can develop i would even consider moving but i havent told coz its so early on please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Maybe he thought things were getting too serious between you after meeting the parents and is slowing thing s down a bit. My advice to you is get on with your life and DO NOT contact him in any way ie text, call or email. Be totally aloof with him and if he misses you then it's up to him to do the chasing...However, if he doesn't call it could be that he has met someone local. Please do not chase because it will only make things worse for you and you will feel more hurt by his rejection. Get yourself out with your friends and busy yourself as much as you can to take your mind off him.
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