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Is my lady disappointed because my penis doesn't look like porn stars?

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Question - (14 April 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2012)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Im 30 years old and my penis is roughly 7-3/4" long measuring accross the top, i can measure over 8" if you measure from the side butand i think thats cheating and 5.25-5.50" in girth, it also has not a bend but just a slight downward curve, I can hurt her on accident in some positions but we love to watch pornos together and most of these guys are like freaks they have huge cocks and almost all of them point upward position, I worry if she judges me on that and if my penis not having a upward bend is a bad thing, we have awesome sex but is most men like these guys on pornos, I just wonder if she sees that and feels like im less of a man???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012):

If you're penis is big women will be scared, i read about this guy who couldn't get laid it also hurts in some positions. I personally aren't that bothered as long as they have something there. Women aren't as fussy as men when it comes to looks and sex (some might be but not many) and someone might of wrote this would you leave your girlfriend for not looking like a pornstar?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012):

Big cocks are great but so are medium size ones i like them both if they are attached to a decent fun loving guy

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A female reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth India +, writes (15 April 2012):

Foot-In-My-Mouth agony auntStop watching porn. What you watch on there is not real. It's created in order to help people make big money by epxloiting porn actors, creating addicts out of normal people, ruining the sex lives and relationships of porn-addicts and creating unrealistic ideas about sex. Chuck the habit and get real! Don't let anybody tell you what an ideal penis size is...there is no ideal size!!!

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (15 April 2012):

person12345 agony auntMost women find a penis that large to be painful. I actually broke up with a guy over it, it was that uncomfortable to have sex and I decided I couldn't have a good sex life with him. You already are big enough that you're capable of hurting her, why would you want to be BIGGER? I assume you want your wife to enjoy sex, not be in agony. Which is a better ego boost, being able to pleasure your woman or being so big you can't even have sex? I'm really hoping you picked the first one.

If watching porn is making you this insecure about yourself, you should stop watching it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012):

It is painful to have one too big. The guy with the worlds biggest penis measures in at 13 inches, and he hasn't gotten laid in 15 years.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (15 April 2012):

Honeypie agony auntHoney, get over it.

MALE porn stars are HIRED for their size, not for their "acting skills" or look. Where as the women are often hired for their looks and willingness to "perform" any sexual favor asked.

If you have awesome sex, WHY do you compare yourself to something FAKE as porn?

If Porn makes you feel inadequate.... stop watching porn.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012):

"is most men like these guys on pornos"

Very few men have penises like male porn stars; penis size is determined solely by genetics and male porn stars become male porn stars because they have big dicks but lack the necessary brains and balls to make something better of themselves. Like pro athletes who earn big bucks by selling their bodies but are otherwise as dumb as a box of rocks, most male porn stars are washed up and broke by their mid-30s.

"I just wonder if she sees that and feels like im less of a man???"

Not any more that you feel like she's less of a woman because she doesn't have (fill in the blank) like female porn stars.

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