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Is my guy lying to me ?

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Question - (3 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi i'm 26 yrs old my boyfriend is 24 we have been dating for a little over 2 month now. we have definatly started out hot and heavy already in love and having great sex. But I recently found out that he has had several porn internet sites that are for not only porn but talking to people on webcams and chat and hooking up for sex he says he dosen't use the account and can't remember the passwords ( he had several diffrent accounts) He swears he never met any of the girls in person only he did talk to one, one time and never used the other pages. Well I find this hard to believe that he didn't use the sites and another thing I met him on a dating site the first time I have ever used one or ever met a man on one he is very nice and never said anything sexual on the site but did after one week he asked to meet me so what i'm thinking is if he asked to meet me what makes me think he has not asked to meet other women? if he told me he had a date before from somone on the site thats fine but he keeps saying only me. also I hacked into his email yes I know this is childish but found that when we were dating a women sent him a pic but I can't open the file for some reason I ask him about this and he says he dosent know who the women is also about 40 female contacts he says he dosent know who they are ! He has to be lying to me right ! come on ! but he swears up and down on his father who just died that he is telling the truth that he don't remember the contacts that the email he has is so old he don't remember is this guy just feeding me bullshit.he also said he didn't have a myspace account but I found he did and he deleted it for me but opened it agian I found out and I asked him why did he open it agian and he said that he only wanted to see if it was closed. WTF and he only has 2 girls on his contacts that look like sluts it would have been diffrent if he had male and female friends but just 2 girls and one is 16 and a bi ! come now ! he did cancel it agian and his email account and said he is trying. He got down on his knees and said he loves me what should I do ? I want to believe him or just get over it but it keeps eating at my head. we are both very jealous so this is hard.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

Oh, and about the myspace account. Closed accounts are closed and gone and cannot be "reopened"; a new account has to be created. If it's the same account, it was never closed to start with.

Side note: the internet whores will spam myspace accounts if the guy lists himself as "single"--he wouldn't be able to stop it without changing his security settings.

I hate internet whores--in case no one knew that already.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

Forgotten passwords... yeah, I know that feeling. I'm sorry I cannot help. I tried hacking the password, no luck. I bought pass word hacking software, no luck. You have to decide if he's worth it, because you will never know for sure.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2010):

Miamine agony auntYour both very jealous... this guy aint lying, his story sounds right.. he was looking but not very hard, that's why he's got stuff but can't remember why. I think you should trust him.

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