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writes:I'm in love with my boss and we have worked together for quite some time, we both shared personal details of how we had been mistreated in the past which resulted in both of us crying openly and at length in the privacy of his office, I told him I could relate to him and he then said exactly the same back. He also asked me how long I had been with my partner and how things were. Is it me or has this boss of mine opened up to me emotionally in order to have a closer relationship with me? I don't have clear answers. He prompted the conversation, not me, I've been acting cool for so long with him as we both have partners. Help I cannot stop this love feeling no matter what I say to myself and a big part of me wants us both to dump our partners and get together, we are so suited!!i only stay professional with him as he is my boss!!
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Stay professional with your boss. I understand that you feel close with him, but you both DO have partners, and those people deserve to be honored in your lives prior to any other individuals.
I do believe he's putting "feelers" out to see how you feel about him, but this is a recipe for disaster.
If you are unhappy in your current relationship, try to fix that, or end it. Don't entertain thoughts of any other romances as an escape from your current heartache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): i think you should back off and keep it business only. people who get together with their boss always ends up in diaster with one of them either getting the sack and the other having to leave. If u are not happy with your partner then leave him.
The chances are if you do take this to the next level, it will end in tears..
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