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Is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel unwanted in your old one?

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Question - (1 March 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2008)
A female Philippines age 26-29, anonymous writes:

is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel like your unwanted in your old one?

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntWell if you really feel moving is best its ok.

But i think with the reasons you stated moving may not help, i was a little shy at the start of school and only had a select few mates. i thought about quiting, but changed my mind i stood up and put myself out there, and it worked.

So my advice is no matter where you go you have to stand up and go for it, or it will be the same everywhere

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (1 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntI am sorry about your heart problem. You need to change your attitude and think more positive. Maybe , if you know more about God, you may see life differently.

We cannot depend on anyone for our happiness. We create our own happiness.

If we want to wallow in self pity , no one would want to play with us .

There are others who are worse off than you but they know what life is all about.

Treasure you life because God has a purpose for everyone of us.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (1 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIf you feel that you have no friends and unhappy , you could go to a new school.

But you need to check yourself. Is it you or the school? Going to a new school may not solve your problems.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008):

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i feel unwanted because i'm not very good with people, i don't go out much because of my heart problem... and all these years i feel like i don't belong i envy my classmates with lots of friends laughing and having fun. i wish i could have that chance even for once in my life

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntIf you can make the switch go for it. But why is it you feel unwanted

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008):

Move only if it is the best thing for you. You cannot go on being miserable in the old school, just get back on your feet and make loads of friends. Hope you like the new school.

take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008):

There's nothing wrong with that at all. I'm sure a lot of people move schools because of the feeling that they are unwanted. If you're able to move schools, then it could make you feel a whole lot better if you do. So go for it, if thats what would make you feel happier :]

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (1 March 2008):

deejuliet agony auntNo, there is nothing wrong with this. If you are able to make the switch, go for it. Sometimes getting a fresh start is all we need.

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