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anonymous
writes:During the act of bringing me to orgasm, my normally conservative boyfriend reached up to my throat and slightly squeezed. He lingered for a moment and then released, I guess to see if I would protest. He then placed his hand back on my throat with a slight squeeze until I reached my O. The next day I could not stop thinking about it and how actually good it made me feel. I really think I liked it and not sure if it made the O more intense or just that he was dominating me.I know he was not mad at me nor trying to hurt me. After I was done, he embraced me and was kissing me all over.We have not talked about it prior to then or there after. I don't know if this is something we will talk about, however it's only been 3 days since it happened.Is it weird that something like that is enjoyable?
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reader, missm83 +, writes (1 February 2011):
 one of my fav things for him to do before i orgasm. ! i actually asked for him to "choke'me a little when i was on top ready to climax.1st he was little nervous , he was afraid he would hurt me. we have little safe words, or signs to let him know if hes hurting me. it turns me on so much that he does it in almost every position... you try being hand cuffed ?? ;0)
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (1 February 2011):
 It sounds faintly like erotic asphyxiation. I believe it is akin to what David Carradine died of (but I think he took it to some extremes). You can read more about it here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Thats not weird at all. It's just some pressure on a sensitive area. If you like it then ask him if he would do it again since he probably really enjoyed seeing the pleasure you got out of it.
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 It's not weird, like you said, you may have just enjoyed the sense of being dominated. It's just essential that he doesn't get carried away or caught up in the moment that he ends up hurting you.
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