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writes:A guy I love only contacts me when he wants to. He asked me if I have a boyfriend and I replied no. When he did not contact me I wrote to him "Hi, How is it going?". He did not answer me so the same day I broke up with him telling him that "you are a player and you are playing with my feelings. Don't talk to me anymore if you see me. I hope I won't see you anymore. I am happy that I dumped you first and forever". I was hoping that he will contact me and talk. But he did not. I am so sad. I love him. I can't forget him. Do you think he will contact me. It says that players do not like to be dumped. What can I do?
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reader, myx shootingstar  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 I had this same problem. Plain and simple.. MOVE ON! Find someone new, he'll get jealous. You reject him. And it just shows how much better you are than him. Don't be the girl who takes all the bs. Hold onto yr heart/pride while you still have it :D
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reader, Rachel O +, writes (12 July 2009):
 i think you should move on!
if he loved you he would text you all the time and want to meet up with you alot, but he doesnt seem to be bothered with you, even when you dumped him didnt seem to be bothered.
no one likes to be dumped!
i think you should try to forget about him, go out with mates and do fun things to try and get your mind off him.
maybe delete his number and help you not to be tempted to text or phone him.
there are plenty more fish in the sea (:
Good luck x
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (12 July 2009):
It seems that your message to him was out of angst. I understand your resentment towards him and I can see why you feel played. However honestly saying how you feel is what I believe make people respect you. I wouldn't have told him that you don't ever want to speak to him again if you didn't really mean it. You are right he may be playing games but by telling him you don't want to speak to him when really you hope he does is playing games as well. I know that this is a way to try to get him to respond and show feelings for you but I believe that this approach very very rarely works. Be honest with him and yourself and you will overall feel better knowing that he knows exactly how you feel.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 Get some pride. You are calling this guy a player and yet seek advice on how to get his attention. Is this really something you want to waste your time on?
Sometimes love is onesides. Cry out your heart and get over it. If you are going to continue to chase guys that even youself acknowledge as players you might as well write doormat on your face.
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